The Hurt Locker (2009)

Crazy wild man takes bomb disarming duty in Iraq. Not bad, but not great.

Two is Enough: A Couple's Guide To Living Childless By Choice by Laura Scott

I think one would only pick up this book if one had a hesitation about the question of whether to have kids. Since I did, and even though I'm not in a couple so the question is largely a theoretical one for me, I thought it might be an interesting read. And in fact it was. First of all, there is some relief in a misery loves company way in its discussion about how every (straight) couple of child-bearing age seems to receive pressure to have kids. I'm not sure it's the case in liberal metropolitan areas, but it appears to be true in 'family oriented' suburbia.

The main focus of the book is a non-statistical interview based survey by the author of childless (or the more positive: childfree) by choice couples. It presents their most common reasons for not having kids. (And no, "We are selfish jerks" is not one of them. In fact, sometimes it's very nearly the reverse, something like: we've thought it through and kids would not benefit having us as parents.) The basic idea being helping couples new to the decision process decide by looking at the satisfaction of other couples who decided one way or another and on what basis.

Red Cliff (2008)

Tells the story of the historically noteworthy battle at the end of the Han dynasty. But not a terribly notable film except for the somewhat good looking actor Takeshi Kaneshiro who is 3/4-Taiwanese, 1/4-Ryukyuan (Japanese) and plays the Shu strategist Zhūgě Liàng.

Departures (2009)

A film dealing with death in Japan, but interspersed with humor. There is a deft touch in the handling of the protagonist's own death in the family.

Sherlock Holmes (2009)

Liked London here. A bit of a buddy pic with the polished Watson looking after the brilliant (but somewhat unhygienic) Holmes and vice versa. Some pretty CGI.

Recent news: Copyright holder hostile to potential future gay portrayals

Up In The Air (2009)

Clooney plays an older single guy. The character is a free loving type, not wanting to be tied down. He's a bit of a misanthrope, seeing people and relationships as a burden, and in a strange way perhaps enjoys his job of firing people, which he rationalizes as a way to free people for a 'better' life. In a turn much like (500) Days of Summer, he falls for a woman who acts much like a man in that she doesn't want or expect exclusivity, just one night stands. At points, Clooney's character extols on the virtues of being single, so much so that we're surprised when he starts to have doubts. At his sister's wedding, he's presented with indirect evidence of the major trade-off of marriage: companionship over loneliness and burden of responsibility for someone else's happiness over free wheeling independence.

Chris and Don: A Love Story (2007)

Fascinating and pretty much unbelievable story of a 50 year old writer, Christopher Isherwood (author of A Single Man), who picks up a 20 year old 'boy', Don Bachardy, as a lover back in the late 1950s. Bachardy who is still alive as of this posting tells the tale from beginning to end, and it's quite riveting. I say unbelievable because Bachardy was young and attractive while Isherwood was already quite old and faded. But Isherwood supported his young lover and 'kept' him pretty much until the day Isherwood died.

The Art of Happiness In a Troubled World by the Dalai Lama and Howard Cutler

I liked the first book in this series so much because it was such a new concept: the idea of a religion which did not look down upon other religions or even on not believing. It look a secular approach to showing how compassion and empathy could improve your life, rather than being instructed to do so as a moral and religious imperative. This book attempts to update and improve on the first. Cutler does a reasonable job with informing on the latest in happiness psychology and research. He is able to extract some nuggets from the Dalai Lama over his several interview visits. But I couldn't help but think that I might have gotten more out of a reread of the original book.